Asma Balfaqih

Good manners

Learning to wait in winter

9 December 2026 · 4 min read · By Asma Balfaqih

GOOD MANNERS Patience does not grow out ofreminders, but out of smallwaits that are worth it. Asma Balfaqih asmabalfaqih.com

Children do not like waiting, and winter asks a lot of it: for the bus, for the coat, for the food, for the next bright day.

We started making waiting visible. We count together, we sing a short verse, we look for something red in the room. Time does not pass faster, but it takes a shape.

Patience is not a character trait a child either has or lacks. It is a skill practised in everyday life, in many small portions.

About the author

Asma Balfaqih is a children’s book author. She studied social work at Hadhramout University in Mukalla and taught the Quran and Islamic religion in Taiz and Mukalla. She writes in Arabic about values, family and faith in the everyday life of children, and lives with her family in Meisterschwanden, Switzerland.