Asma Balfaqih

Family and home

Grandparents far away

5 May 2026 · 4 min read · By Asma Balfaqih

FAMILY AND HOME How children build arelationship with people theyrarely get to see. Asma Balfaqih asmabalfaqih.com

For many families living far from home, grandparents are mostly a voice on the phone. Children need more than short video calls in which everybody talks at once and nobody really listens.

What helped us was giving the conversation a small task. The children show something they have built or drawn, and the grandparents tell a story from their own childhood in return. This creates an exchange instead of a greeting.

In "A Surprise in Makkah" Maher and Zayd meet their grandparents again unexpectedly. I wrote that scene because I know how great the joy of children is when people from far away are suddenly close.

About the author

Asma Balfaqih is a children’s book author. She studied social work at Hadhramout University in Mukalla and taught the Quran and Islamic religion in Taiz and Mukalla. She writes in Arabic about values, family and faith in the everyday life of children, and lives with her family in Meisterschwanden, Switzerland.